Posted by KaraS on November 20, 2004, at 23:10:02
In reply to Nonanswerable question---, posted by Glydin on November 20, 2004, at 19:12:10
> But I'll ask it anyway---
>
> Do we really think it will improve? "THE" situation right now, that is? I'm confused and disappointed and just not understanding why this behavior is allowed as it's currently happening. I've been here a while and there always seems to be "something". This one really effects me, I'm sorry to say. I really like so many here, but I can't seem to ignore the yucky stuff. My issue, but it does sadden me.
I think it will improve as far as the individual targets are concerned. The troublemaker(s) can still do their thing but if you're able not to buy into it, it has less power over you. Then, if enough people don't react, it's only Dr. Bob's problem at that point. For the rest of us, the beast will have no teeth.I honestly don't think it would bother me to have any of my posts submitted for review at this point - unless it came from someone I admired and respected and considered a friend. When it comes from someone who does it indiscriminately, then it would be annoying to me rather than hurtful.
I only wish I could be this way in the real world. I'm extremely rejection sensitive in many other ways and esp. in the work world. Go figure.
But, all in all, I think Dr. Bob is failing us by allowing this situation to go on and by feeding into it further.
poster:KaraS
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URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20041114/msgs/418476.html