Posted by 64Bowtie on September 25, 2004, at 17:03:43
In reply to Re: Re: mr rod... » 64bowtie, posted by AuntieMel on September 23, 2004, at 13:37:50
> Maybe. Self respect is something I have plenty of. Self liking? Nope. They're not the same thing....
<<< Are you slating your self-loathing here? If so, When I loath something or some one, I know the story of why. Are you certain you do in your case? Or is it just a feeling? A gnawing and nagging at your wholeness?
<<< Please be clear that I am 100% behind feelings as one "shared" method or reason. When feelings block out the other partners in reason, motives and logic, I hold feelings suspect until it gets sorted out. I do a "wait-and-see". I get more information before I act. So when I say, "...just a feeling", I am holding the "partnership" of reason, namely motives, feelings and logic to a place of higher order and value in my decision making processes.
<<< Please don't recoil in mortification because I think differently. This is ancient stuff. Someone else thought alot about it long before I did. I have just been trained to decode it first in problem solving situations. If I can do it, we all can. My bias is that it saved my a*s and many other's as well.
<<< Bumper sticker: Be careful of what you feel!
Rod
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