Posted by Dinah on July 19, 2004, at 16:22:07
In reply to Possible trigger » AuntieMel, posted by Dinah on July 19, 2004, at 16:06:02
My beef was always with Dr. Bob, far more than Fires. It hurt me that he considered some of the things he said civil. I care too much about Dr. Bob, and only those I care about can hurt me.
So the answer is simple! Quit caring about Dr. Bob, and quit posting about areas I'm vulnerable in. Sort of a shame, since I haven't felt free to comment on many threads when I feel like I could contribute on the topic because I've let Dr. Bob's and Fires cause shame to overwhelm me. But that's the way it goes, and maybe it's better that way anyway. Not feeling safe reduces attachment, and lack of attachment is safe. :)
So maybe I should thank Fires and Dr. Bob instead of being angry?
poster:Dinah
thread:367697
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