Posted by spoc on April 27, 2004, at 17:05:08
In reply to Re: please be civil » spoc, posted by Dr. Bob on April 27, 2004, at 16:01:55
> I'm sorry if you've felt neglected here, but I need to ask you not to post anything that could lead others to feel accused....
<<<< This is one of the selective applications of a PBC, because it is not typical that one is issued when only general board matters are being discussed. This subject may be more sensitive for you than some, but consistency in applying the principles should still be used. Monumental debates and disagreements have taken place on this board at times, with people expressing much disillusionment about it *and* general poster habits. People rarely get PBC-ed unless someone disses or alludes to a particular person. Inconsistent application is not a new or unique thing for someone to point out, but it warrants the explanations that are requested.
> It tends to be more civil to talk about how you feel than what others do, for example, by using I-statements...>
<<<<< I walked the fine line, balanced what I said, did not get personal, and did not come off like it's made to look with those clips.
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