Posted by 64Bowtie on March 26, 2004, at 11:04:50
In reply to Re: Hysterectomy and no orgasims-husband needs help!, posted by BigCountry on March 26, 2004, at 6:34:06
That said, one gal-pal who had emergency surgery when she was 16, was married to a very older man who no longer was able to do anything without nodding off, said she had to resort to self stimulation exclusively or suffer nothing at all. Orgasms had always been far away but to her surprise, as she focused on the process, they became much easier. She reported that after about eight years to her delight, not only were multi-orgasms common but she could get to a point of continuous orgasms lasting up to a 1/2 hour. She could get to this point with self stimulation, relax and lay quietly continuing to enjoy wild pleasures. Hmmm... When her husband passed away, she became well monied and went looking for someone to share the extasy. I had heard toooo much by then so I de-volunteered immediately. I do appreciate the snapshot of what can happen, since I was well aware of the difficulties for other women who had been through a histo as you call it. If your wife has been soooo orgasmic up to the surgery, private Self stimulation was probably not ever considered. Well, things change. Buy her some tools and let her experiment privately. When she emerges wanting you, I'm sure you'll be ready, toooo.
Enjoy!
Rod
PS: Men are capable of multi-orgasms, so let your wife experiment on you, toooo. No violence, please!
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