Posted by Elle2021 on February 10, 2004, at 22:01:54
In reply to Re: Open Thoughts Forum » Elle2021, posted by Karen_kay on February 10, 2004, at 11:20:02
Transfer you out?! How could that possibly help anything? Maybe he's trying to push you a little bit (or a lot actually) because he thinks you're ready to start talking about what happened with your dad. If you aren't comfortable with spilling the entire story yet, then maybe you could start with describing the relationship the two of you had, or some less-shocking events that happened. Maybe that way, he gets what he wants, and you start to loosen up a bit and start to tell what happened. Which will end up good for you in the long run. I know these things are difficult, and definitely much easier for me to say then for you to actually do. I think I have a good idea of what you're going through though. My therapist wanted to talk about that stuff with me, but I said I wasn't ready yet, I'm not sure how long that excuse is gonna fly with her...
Elle
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