Posted by Dinah on December 23, 2003, at 21:09:01
In reply to Re: Giftedness, Bipolar Disorder, ADHD, and Asperger's » Dinah, posted by Minnie-Haha on December 23, 2003, at 20:11:45
Mainly we chose a school that has the same philosophy that we have, and that his Montessori preschool had. It allows for a lot of individuality. So he's had a lot of consistency in his life. They also have a no teasing rule, and emphasize inclusiveness. He's a bit younger than your son, but so far we're pretty happy. And so is he. Hopefully he'll be there for his entire school career, until college.
We also emphasize consistency a lot at home, in a relaxed sort of way. There are lots of daily rituals, which seem to give him the structure that makes him feel secure.
I really try to send him the message that it's ok not to be perfect. I try to share stories of my childhood misdeeds. But he still expects a bit too much from himself. I can't say that he's a problem child *at all*. He tries really hard to be good. Too good, really.
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