Posted by LynneDa on December 19, 2003, at 10:07:11
In reply to DILEMMA of the day, posted by blink23 on December 17, 2003, at 18:11:39
Hi! It's been a couple of days - have you spoken again? To answer your question, I don't think you are at fault. It sounds more like a communication gap . . . like Catholicism and your questions are not really the issue. More that you are not hearing what he wants you to hear - not giving enough time to what he thinks is important. A discussion may need to be had that sets some groundrules about listening thoroughly before moving on to another aspect of the subject and giving both of you the chance to air your feelings?
Or, maybe he was just having a needy day and didn't get the attention to his talking that he expected.
OR, there could be something else he's aggravated about and that was a convenient situation to pick on and dump out about.
I say all these "ORs" cuz my husband and I have all these types of things happen from time to time. It is inevitable and could just mean you are really getting comfortable with each other and able to totally be yourselves (for better or worse)!
Good luck and talk it through with him!
~ Lynne
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