Posted by LynneDa on December 17, 2003, at 11:09:04
In reply to Re: in response to blink23 » st@cy, posted by Eddie Sylvano on December 17, 2003, at 9:38:05
Run, don't walk honey! Sounds like he's otherwise occupied. I also had the habit of falling hard fast and putting too much into a little bit of attention - then feeling totally insecure as time went by. That's giving someone else too much power over you! It's so much easier to be the one breaking things off - control and closure!
For the long term, realize that when you meet someone when you're drunk, you are a different person. That's fine for just fun dating - I certainly did my share of it in college too. But, it's not the way to find someone for the long haul. Not that it doesn't work for some, but I think you know what I'm saying :-).
I'm a little jaded and cynical now, so I do recognize when guys just want the attention of another female in their lives. Here's my advice: Do your detective work first before you engage your heart. Internet conversations are good for that!
Take care and best of luck - you're at a very fun time in your life, enjoy!!
~ Lynne
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