Posted by Susan J on October 24, 2003, at 8:47:29
In reply to Big date in 24 hrs - I'm freaking out!, posted by Wildflower on October 23, 2003, at 11:12:43
> OK, so I finally have a date after going through situations very similar to Susan's.
<<<Way to go!!!!! I'm really happy for ya.> - what to wear
<<Whatever makes you feel most attractive.> - how to wear my hair
<<In whatever way you think is flattering and you know you won't have to keep checking on...> - what if the conversation lulls at dinner
>>Ask him silly questions....> - what if he admits to weird fetishes like some of the guys I've met on the Internet
<<OK, if some guy is admitting weird fetishes on the first date.... ??? Just tell him you're not into that and he needs to know that up front. Then smile.
> - what if he's allergic to cats (I have one)
<<He can take that allergy med they show on TV. :-)> - what if he goes in for a kiss?
>>Don't stand really close to him unless you are OK with him doing that.> - what if he's a bad kisser?
>>Change your phone number. :-) Just kidding...just stop kissing him and say good night.> - what if he neglected to tell me he has a girlfriend/wife
<<Walk out. Immediately.I think it's *great* you're going out! Just remember that you are an awesome person and he's lucky to get to spend some time with you....it's an adventure. It'll be great!
Have *fun* that's all that matters...
Susan
poster:Susan J
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