Posted by Chicklet on October 7, 2003, at 15:10:26
In reply to Thank You~Best Wishes In Healing and Moving On, posted by galkeepinon on October 7, 2003, at 14:18:29
Yeah people have the right to have their say. "Saying anything", though...well they aren't just saying anything. They are telling the truth about a hurtful situation. Tabitha captured the feeling of (most of) the board quite eloquently, i think.
>>I said I don't want anymore drama, nor will I cause it anymore, and I'm sticking by my word.
Yes that is what you said, but unfortunately for the people that were mauled by your words, just seeing you post or seeing you here...is drama. I don't mean your kind of drama (you know, like a DRAMATIC actress). Not the kind of drama that applies to your situation or the kind I think you mean.
- but trauma.>> Galkeepinon (yes, I) has not caused any trouble
I just don't think you can separate the two. Or the actions of the two (or three or four...)because you are one in the same. If I pushed you down several flights of stairs (as Karen) and then came back wearing a mask, could I claim that I hadn't stirred anything up or harmed you because I'm now wearing a mask?????
>>...................for making amends.
That's not quite why you "stirred up emotions"!!!!! I think you know what I mean. Oh hell maybe you don't. i don't care.
>>For the LAST time I am saying sorry.
I can do no more.Actually I think it might help if you discontinued posting. No I take that back. it would defifnitely help. And I hope that Bob changes something around in the administration of this site to see to it that no one else can waltz in here and slay well-meaning, honest, caring people.
>>Maybe I am in a different place than those of you who
Oh you're in a different place, all right.
>>I leave those who are so angry with me, lying about me, lying about themselves and the part they played, condemning me, don't know how to forgive, don't want to forgive, and one's I just cannot and without a doubt just will never *get through to* with this thought for yourselves.....
If you were in *my* position, how would you feel?Hmmm, if I were in your position how would I feel? Like shit.
Well dear, doesn't look as if you'll have to turn anything over to God because no one is lying about you. And please leave religion out of this. Wow I think you have the honor of uttering the most sanctimonious words I've ever had the misfortune of reading.
Why would anyone make anything up about you?y? If they wanted to make up stories about you they would've been doing it long ago, after Krissy left the building.>>More power to them...
Same to you, lovely.
>>Why don't you take the attention off me now, and deal with your feelings amongst each other.
You hit the nail on the head! Yay! Man that's what we've been trying to do this whole time...but but but, you seemed to really want it so...
>>I guarantee you that there will be many people in your life that bring up such emotions that have been displayed here,
Wow would that be a money back guarantee? Because I'd really like to take you up on it. You see, you are much more powerful than you give yourself credit for. You have actually permanently scarred people. And don't think I for one will ever meet anyone like you in my life.
And I'm just fine with that.
I know you read this and I'm glad you're done responding. Thanks for letting me "share", as you call it.
poster:Chicklet
thread:266419
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