Posted by fallsfall on September 21, 2003, at 8:11:41
In reply to Bozeman!!!, posted by kara lynne on September 21, 2003, at 3:24:54
You asked a question: Why would he bother at all with me if he didn't love me?
Love is not the only reason that people want to be together.
I think that you fill a need for him. He needs to be powerful, so he orders you around. He needs to be wanted, so he strings you along. He needs to be better, so he puts you down.
Love is when you want to enhance the other person's life. He only wants to enhance his own. That is not love.
You know how to love him. He doesn't know how to love you.
You need to wait until you find someone who can love you. That someone is waiting for you.
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