Posted by kara lynne on September 10, 2003, at 13:53:16
In reply to fallsfall, posted by kara lynne on September 8, 2003, at 19:17:19
Hi fallsfall,
I've been working on 'the letter'. I think it's making me physically sick--yesterday I could hardly function. I went to therapy and felt much worse about myself--I don't think that's the way it should be going and I do plan to talk to him about it next week. I realized later that the missing element is that I don't feel cared for by him--just 'let's get down to work' and then my resistence comes up because I want to feel loved first. Maybe that's stupid, but maybe I need another kind of therapy. I *don't* want to be coddled, just...seen and appreciated. Ok, this belongs on other-babble, so I'll stop here.
poster:kara lynne
thread:257677
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