Posted by fallsfall on September 5, 2003, at 11:43:44
In reply to just spouting off again..., posted by Penny on September 5, 2003, at 11:36:58
Pat Pat Pat Pat Pat
Scream all you want. Get it all out. That's good.
The roommate is a piece of work. Why is she calling your grandmother??? This is not your fault. You did everything right. You are a responsible adult. Your roommate needs a reality check.
You have said before that these are her problems, not your problems. You are right.
So say sympathetically to her "Yes, dear. Yes, dear." and then know that she's the one with the problem.
You have tried so hard to make it so the two of you could live in the same world. But she doesn't. She lives somewhere else (and soon will physically live somewhere else, too).
I think avoidance might be a good tact for the next couple of months. Just remember that you really are OK.
Wanna scream some more?
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