Posted by deirdrehbrt on August 19, 2003, at 21:18:19
In reply to Re: Advice for Dealing with Horrible Coworker??? » Tabitha, posted by Susan J on August 18, 2003, at 13:56:56
It sounds like your boss doesn't either know or care that your performance is suffering because of this creepy cow-orker. (Phrase borrowed from Dilbert)
You sound like you are trying to remain polite to this person, even when you are trying to change her behavior to you. It might be time to tell it like it is. Some people think that as long as you are being polite, that you have no problems with what they are doing. You might just have to let-fly with what you really think. I'm sure, that traveling in the same social circles, the majority of the people in those circles understand her much like you do. If she attempts retribution after you speak to her, that your friends will know what is really going on. You boss seems to already. Dealing with her directly might be quicker than going through the system.
Dee.
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