Posted by kara lynne on August 9, 2003, at 19:44:58
In reply to Re: But then he left a *message*... » kara lynne, posted by fallsfall on August 9, 2003, at 19:02:04
Well the answer is yes. To everything. Of course I want to talk to him, but I'm trying to support the moving on with my life side, which I think would preclude that. I guess I'm just trying to 'buy time' right now---because if I make sweeping declarations they tend to put me in a panic, and end up backfiring.
I'd like to just say no. I'm hoping that with time and strength it will become easier. You're absolutely right; everytime I talk to him it does put me in a tizzy. So I'm taking the chicken way out of talking to him--for the moment.
I can completely relate to your therapist story; I don't know what it is that makes me stay in relationships long past the expiration date.
All for now.
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