Posted by KimberlyDi on August 4, 2003, at 9:26:04
In reply to new roomies » lil' jimi, posted by yesac on August 1, 2003, at 16:30:44
I think it's a trust thing. You have strangers invading your comfort zone (home). I know that I wouldn't like it. Why don't you make a *date* with them. Order pizza, watch TV, and get to know each other. Talk about pet peeves and set basic ground rules that everyone will agree on. I wish you luck.
KDi in Texas> Well, they both seem really nice. A guy and a girl. It's hard to say what will happen. Things with my old roomates went okay for a while, but then for unknown reasons there was a downturn, and I just felt really uncomfortable with them after that. We didn't talk, except for "hi". I didn't want to be around when they were. I hoped when I got home that they wouldn't be there. Basically.... I really just don't want things to turn out like that again. I want to feel comfortable in my own home, you know?
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> I don't know how to get to feel comfortable with them.
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