Posted by paxvox on July 24, 2003, at 17:57:35
In reply to Re: So Screwed up.... again, posted by giget on July 24, 2003, at 12:50:27
When is it done. Tough question, with even a tougher answer. If HE says he is done with it, and is moving along fine w/o you (i.e. going on dates, etc..) that's a pretty fair indication that it is over to him. If he thinks he can do that AND string you along for an occasional boff, then YOU need to be strong enough to tell him to bug off. An open wound where you keep picking the scab will continue to hurt you, and it will not heal over. A wound that is treated and left alone will heal more quickly, and leave less of a scar. I know how you feel, as I have been on both sides of your situation. For my 2 cents, the sooner you can end it, the sooner you can begin to live again for yourself, and the sooner you might notice the eye of that fellow you have always thought was cute and kind. Life is too short to put up with BS that you can end. A marriage is one thing, but a relationship without firm foundations.....well.....
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