Posted by Dinah on June 29, 2003, at 11:46:16
In reply to Re: How can something be safe if it's not permanent?, posted by judy1 on June 29, 2003, at 11:26:56
Thanks Judy. I guess I always am the confided in in my real life relationships, rarely the confider. Safety issues? Not wanting to burden others?
As to the backup therapist, my therapist won't let me have one. He thinks I want to dilute the dependency or something (ok, he's right). At one point we almost got one, since he was out of town so much. We had one picked out and everything. But since the clinic has closed, all my hints fall on deaf ears. The person he had picked isn't going to do therapy anymore. And my therapist tends to get annoyed if I push on this subject. If he starts going out of town a lot again, I might ask directly again, instead of hinting.
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