Posted by horridmonster on May 11, 2003, at 19:29:55
In reply to All Hail To The Queen Of Fools, posted by whiterabbit on May 11, 2003, at 11:58:04
not a fool - you have shown that despite all of what is being thrown your way, you are capable of loving another being. And now it is time for that person you are loving to be you. When the heck does he get out for good? Any way that can be rushed along? You need the space he's taking up for YOU. Because as entertaining as the stories about his behavior are, and no matter how much this is an opportunity for the world to see how generous of soul you are, it's time for you. What's the schedule for his exit? Has this been discussed yet? I guarentee he won't want it to be as soon as you do- it might not feel like you are being nice but please be aware as you push him toward the door (That i hope you change the lock on) that you ARE being nice. To the person who will learn to take the niceness: YOU. It might not always be comfortable - it will certainly upset his majesty and it sounds like he's not used to being upset - but it's time to move him along. I don't mean throw him out and change the key behind his back, i mean set up a time he needs to be out by. And stick to it.
Sorry - i don't mean to give advice. You seem to be doing really really well. What ever you do will be the right thing because it will be your decision. I just want to let you know you are NOT a fool (Although i like fools!) and I also want to thank you for sharing all of what you're going through with us out here in cyber land. You're showing me it is possible to meet up with the challenges of life with humour, strength, and Grace.
-Horrid Monster
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