Posted by lostsailor on April 25, 2003, at 21:05:42
In reply to leeran..., posted by lostsailor on April 25, 2003, at 19:22:03
BTW...I have NEVER been with a prostitute---just realized it may have looked that way. Don’t fret, my friend, you did not imply that in anyway…lol
Leeann, most of what you say is true. Esp...the last minute "guess what, I'm coming" thing...I just don't think he should guilt me into this.
This could and in reality, most likely would be stressful but fun. Can I equally tell him, I'll be there for sure if you simulcast it or have web cam on hand.
I don't know if you know as you said you are a bit new, but I am agoraphobic---that is the biggest problem. I mean I run or ride everyday, go out with close friends occasionally and was even in a 4yr engagement with someone in another country...truth be told and doc is a bit puzzled by this as I am, I do a lot better in BIG (NY, Toronto, Boston and therefore assume SF) than in lil" ol' Buffalo...
I feel like I am being coerced and that's what I don't like. AND every time I see him I get the( "I got better you can too, thing) His was acute stress in the military, mine--most likely- is more genetic. Over the yrs, doc has actually formed an opinion of him that is not the nicest--one of superiority!! He has done what I have not done yet and loves reminding me about it. Now that’s pizza with all the toppings…
I am as puzzled as troubled , i guess.
Maybe I should just ask them to do it in the park of my condo and I'll either come down or watch from the window. And another point of your---a very good one--is that this will be my first trip there and first time to really meet his soon to be bride and would like to spend "quality time" with them. She totally gets it, why can't he???
Also, there has been mention it being great for a good friend that "they" (made by him---who does not like her native cali family, which I am sure would not loot the house) can really feel compfy with me "taking the dog to the park (golden gate, SF and all that) and be certain that nothing will be trashed at the house upon return...THAT comment alone almost made me hang up the phone.
~tony
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