Posted by leeran on April 22, 2003, at 17:31:32
In reply to Everyone please take a moment to read, posted by whiterabbit on April 22, 2003, at 15:05:13
"I need to conserve energy for arguing with my soon-to-be ex-husband"
Absolutely, Gracie! Hold your cards close and keep your eyes open. Don't settle for anything less than all you deserve.
My first husband "got to me" in a weak moment on or around April 15 (several years ago) and I was so desperate to "get it over with" that I ended up paying all of the income tax we owed and letting him have his 80 acre "hunting playground" for less than market value. I know all that sounds material (lol, vs. immaterial - but I mean material in the sense of materialistic, which is what I should have SAID), but in a way, it's MORE than material(istic) because it's how you end up feeling afterwards when the dust settles that's important.
My ex-husband played tug-of-war right down to the friggin' coasters and bottle stoppers. And the s.o.b. made off with about five years worth (or more) of my serotonin.
If you ever want to email me for divorce "pep talks" please feel free. :-)
poster:leeran
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