Posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 11:11:44
In reply to Re: krissy?.......KRISSY, posted by tina on March 26, 2003, at 10:58:07
Thanks for sharing tina,
I think you are miusunderstanding ME. I don't rely on this board, I have family, friends, and 2 docs. It's funny, because I have never been called needy. Yes, I did ask, but I didn't tell jyl "these boards are not jyl's board"-that was inappropriate and I stand firm on it. I would have taken her "up on it" if she hadn't said what she said, and I was talking to her until she slammed me. jyl seemed very condescending and I won't take that from anyone. I'm smart enough to know the difference.
I made a mistake, with a reminder from Dr. Bob, but at least I apologized. With jyl, it doesn't matter if I asked or not. I understand she is ill, we all are, but please don't call me needy, I am far from it.
I appreciate your post here, but it's over, I'm over it, if you noticed my well wishes for jyl, it's just the internet, and a site, I know what I have to do, and it sounds like I am getting a lot of support. Yep, I post a lot, and prolifically, and I have that right. I know it has helped a lot of people. The one's who it hasn't they can take it or leave it-that's their right. It's not because I am needy.
Anyway, thanks for sharing........
Take Care, Kristen
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> Ok, first of all......YOU asked justyourlaugh what SHE thought you were afraid of, what SHE thought you were missing and she told you her opinion. YOU asked Krissy.
> You post prolifically, yes, and seem very needy. Justyourlaugh was only wondering what it was that was missing in your life that makes you latch onto this site so strongly. She was trying to be there for you to talk to but you seemed to get defensive and glib. (in my opinion)
> I don't see that justyourlaugh was mean at all. She opened her heart to help. It was your decision not to take her up on it.
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> I do admit fully that I am partial to justyourlaugh and take offense at anyone speaking ill of her. She is an open-hearted, sweet and generous person and those of you who choose not to talk to her are missing out bigtime.
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> I hope you find what you're looking for Krissy but a little advice from jyl is worth taking. Spend some quality time with yourself and your own thoughts. YOu may find out that the things you are looking for are right there.
> take care
> tina
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