Posted by Phil on January 1, 2003, at 17:37:01
In reply to Re: Thanks guys for helping, I feel gratitude/hope » Phil, posted by Miller on January 1, 2003, at 9:44:48
I thank you because being able to share something with someone is good for me.
It also reminds me that, since it's been years, it wouldn't hurt me to do some writing and talking. I hardly leave my apt but seem to inflict damage anyway.They probably deserved it. hahahha
ps...I thought about what we talked about last night and today. When I had the energy for relationships, either she or I would break up. A relationship now is having coffee..that's not that good.
Anyway, regardless of who done who wrong, I always worried about the woman. That was my first mistake. I was always the one hanging on for dear life and the ex was going out with friends, etc. I projected my feelings onto them and even sometimes wanted to help them because as long as I try helping them, I don't have to try to help me.
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