Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how??

Posted by coral on October 30, 2002, at 18:45:04

In reply to Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » coral, posted by snowden on October 30, 2002, at 13:38:34

Dear Snowden,
I'm concerned for your feelings, first and foremost. By following your instincts and telling him before YOU have invested any more in the relationship will save you heartache if it's something he doesn't want to deal with as well as relieving some of the anxiety you're presently feeling. From family experience, I know that fear of abandonment is a key issue in BPD and can only imagine your anxiety.
These issues can weigh heavily on the strongest of relationships - I came within a hair's breadth of my marriage failing when I crashed into a major clinical depression.

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do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? snowden 10/29/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden NikkiT2 10/29/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? snowden 10/29/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden judy1 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden Ted 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? coral 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » coral snowden 10/30/02
Will you do me a favor? » snowden judy1 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? coral 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » coral snowden 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? coral 10/31/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden NikkiT2 10/31/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden judy1 10/31/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? snowden 10/31/02
Thank you all for your insight... snowden 10/31/02
I'm really happy for you, good luck! :-) (nm) » snowden judy1 10/31/02

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