Posted by jay on October 29, 2002, at 10:14:28
In reply to Hardly any sex drive, posted by Kelli on October 26, 2002, at 11:13:26
Well..I am no expert...but maybe it is time to get creative. I don't want to embarass you...but what about some sexual 'playing'? There are many great books out there on how to 'spice up' your sex life. Go 'parking'...role-play...get some body paint and all sorts of lotions and creams and stuff..buy some, er, 'toys'...get some sexy underwear...learn the art of 'stimulating' yourself.Plus, sex is an EXCELLENT antidepressant. Feel liberated about your sexuality. If there are further issues...say involving abuse..then best to see a counsellor, as you would need some serious help and guidance. Otherwise..sex between two loving people can be just unbelievable..(and even not so loving..sometimes pure lust is fun too..;-)..as long as it is done with responsibility.
Best wishes..please keep us posted on how you make out..
Jay
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