Posted by jay on August 30, 2002, at 14:11:06
In reply to Re: i think it's harder for men/jay, posted by ctrlaltndel on August 30, 2002, at 9:22:51
> Dating that is...
> Women can just get it if they really want it-I mean sex..
> Desperation is a big turn off for women.
> Go out and playfully flirt for a while without being too heavy , play some teasing games have fun (whatever that is)..then you'll seek your desire.
> Libraries are a good place..
> MeOwWell...thanks for your empathy...but see my above post to Dinah. (It explains why I am so f**ed up..hehe) I dunno..I am not the 'flirt' type of guy. I like to go on a date...have all the fun in the world (and I don't mean sexually...that comes later..usually..heh.)
I have always gone out of my way to make a date *original*..like go for a hike in a forest in a provincial park, then go shopping, then go up in the CN Tower..then go out for funky drinks.
Maybe that is why I am having such a hard time. Many women have told me they don't like to be treated 'so good' (and no...by gawd I am not some 'prince charming'...I just like to treat a lady "well"...I am almost sick of women who say they don't like that...and end up with abusive slob husbands and all that...ughhh.)
So...that 'tis me..gawd I don't know. Thanks for you kindness though. I understand you being single and 'not' looking...I was in the same boat for about 4-5 years, going through 'grief' I guess...then with depression sucking me so low.
On the 'Healing Road'...I guess I have entered back into 'the land of the living'.Thanx for listening,
Jay
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