Re: HELP...advice please » Ctrlaltndel : |

Posted by Dinah on August 4, 2002, at 22:25:21

In reply to HELP...advice please, posted by Ctrlaltndel : | on August 4, 2002, at 22:13:11

Hmmm. Hard to say without any background...
But I would think a simple honest statement would be best. Along with the website offer. If you didn't tell him, would you ever? If you're expecting to tell him at some point, he might resent not hearing it up front. Would he be able to tell who you are the way you were able to tell who he was? Is there someone in your family who knows the situation who could give you some sensible advice?
Just take care dear Dreamer. While it could turn out to be a wonderful reunion, it would seem that there is also a reasonable possibility for pain there. And I would hate to see you hurt. Keep up those defenses. That's my best advice. Whatever you decide, keep up your defenses.
Sorry I have no practical advice.
An ever-cautious,
Dinah

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HELP...advice please Ctrlaltndel : | 8/4/02
Re: HELP...advice please » Ctrlaltndel : | Dinah 8/4/02
Re: .advice Ctrlaltndel : | 8/4/02
Re: No I'll veiw from afar Ctrlaltndel : | 8/4/02
Re: well ..I sorted that out quickly- (nm) Ctrlaltndel : ) 8/4/02
Re: .advice » Ctrlaltndel : | Dinah 8/4/02
Re: No I'll veiw from afar Bobby 8/4/02
Re: this is so tricky dinah/bobby Ctrlaltndel : ) 8/4/02
Dreamer dear... » Bobby SandraDee 8/4/02
Re: this is so tricky dinah/bobby Dinah 8/4/02
Oh my, Gabbi's rubbing off on me... SandraDee 8/4/02
Did U just say you caught your Dorkiness from me. » SandraDee Gabbi 8/4/02
Re: this is so tricky .............. Ctrlaltndel : ) 8/5/02
Re: this is so tricky .............. Gabbi 8/5/02
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oh dreamer » Ctrlaltndel Willow 8/6/02

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