Posted by Gabbi on July 24, 2002, at 20:33:02
In reply to Re: what is wrong with me? » id rather be surfin, posted by Dinah on July 24, 2002, at 17:40:47
Have you been in a lot of relationships where you felt like this? Or is this what you feel is the "one and only" for youDid you fight from the very beginning?
I'm sounding a bit clinical, I don't mean too, its just that while I can't do a thing to take away the pain right now,
Because you are feeling this panicky after a pretty short while (6 months isn't long)
There could be a lot of reasons why you are feeling this extreme that have more to do with you than the relationship.The feelings are genuine but they can be caused by so many things, that would show up eventually even if tomorrow your relationship magically became "perfect"
Its a bit much to be hit with when you are feeling desperate and in love I wouldn't blame you for just ignoring this.
I just have had such a pattern myself with being so frightened of having someone leave me, that I start behaving in a way
that drives them to leave.. And if I can help anyone before they start a self defeating pattern
I'd really like too.I wish there was a magic potion, but if there was there wouldn't be so many songs about the agony of "love"
Gabbi
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