Posted by Angel Girl on July 2, 2002, at 14:41:27
In reply to Everyone has helped so much, posted by Mandy on July 2, 2002, at 11:36:49
Mandy
You're right, no cat will ever replace Shadow. All cats are different and all have their own special little quirks. Take your time to grieve the loss of your kitty before deciding on getting another one. I also got the ashes of my siamese kitty that I had to put down. He was such a huge part of my life that I felt so horrible when he was gone. Now I feel he will always be with me. My family thinks I'm crazy but I'm having his ashes buried with mine. We will always be together.
I wish there was a way to make it easier for you but there isn't anything anybody can do. It even took me months before I could look at any of my baby's pictures and even more than 3 years later, I still cry when I look at them. He is so missed. I know you will always have a special place in your heart for Shadow.
I know this might sound really wacky but I felt a real sense of relief once I got possession of his ashes. I hope you find some sense of peace soon. <hugs>
Angel Girl
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