Posted by shar on June 16, 2002, at 14:25:48
In reply to Re: VERY IMPORTANT TO ME--PLS HELP ME!!!, posted by Angel Girl on June 14, 2002, at 1:50:22
> No, nobody has told me I'm horrible. That's MY label after hearing all the negative comments.
This is a terrible trap that we get into, labeling ourselves. Stop it.
>Is it really possible for others to know us better than we see ourselves???
No.
>They can't all be wrong can they???
Yes.
>How can I ignore how others perceive me???
There are many ways to ignore others. But, why ignore it? Because you think you should change because of what they said? Well, that may be true. But only if, after thorough and honest self-evaluation you agree about some or all of the things they said. If you disagree, if what they said doesn't fit, you don't need to change at all.
Self-discovery is a lifelong process.
Shar
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