Kazoo--Workin through

Posted by Shar on April 29, 2002, at 13:07:14

In reply to PLEASE be civil » scared, posted by IsoM on April 29, 2002, at 11:18:35

Kazoo,
I am like IsoM. So shocked, disbelieving that people can be so inhumane; that your family has been so traumatized, your mom's heart was broken. God, it is almost too much to bear to think of being the one watching over the family all of that time, trying to keep things afloat.
If you ever forgive your uncaring relatives, it will probably take a lot of time to get there. This strikes so deep in your heart. Your anger is understood. I hope that somehow you can shift something around so you aren't hurting yourself with ulcers and the like. I don't know the answer to that one--something that will achieve some measure of psychological distance. Maybe meditation if you do that, biofeedback, you know, just using your mind to regulate or normalize your body functions (blood pressure, breathing, pulse) back to normal for 10 minutes a day. Forgiveness is nice and will probably come, but I doubt if it's right around the corner. In the meantime, you are in pain.
Shar

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'My Poor Joe' kazoo 4/28/02
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Re: 'My Poor Joe' » kazoo IsoM 4/28/02
Re: 'My Poor Joe' SusanG 4/28/02
Re: 'My Poor Joe' Reason for the title. kazoo 4/29/02
kazoo - you are sick and wrong scared 4/29/02
I'm so sorry..... » kazoo judy1 4/29/02
accusatory posts » scared beardedlady 4/29/02
Re: I'm so sorry..... SusanG 4/29/02
Re: It's good to have a place to vent » scared tina 4/29/02
Re: please be civil » scared Dr. Bob 4/29/02
Re: 'My Poor Joe' Reason for the title. » kazoo CtrlAlt n Del 4/29/02
Any Help At All? » kazoo IsoM 4/29/02
PLEASE be civil » scared IsoM 4/29/02
Kazoo--Workin through Shar 4/29/02
revenge is the best medicine... » kazoo Krazy Kat 4/29/02
Re: Another way to look at it SusanG 4/29/02
So, libel is OK then??? scared 4/29/02
Dr. Bob---reporting others is not so supportive. Shar 4/29/02
Re: Dr. Bob---reporting others is not so supportive. scared 4/29/02
Re: Plonked?? R U Okay? (nm) » kazoo Zo 4/30/02
libel, etc. » scared beardedlady 4/30/02
Geez, Dr. Bob... » beardedlady beardedlady 4/30/02
Re: kazoo - you are sick and wrong 'Thank you' » scared kazoo 5/2/02
Oh Precious! » kazoo Willow 5/2/02
Kazoo shar 5/3/02
Re: Kazoo » shar kazoo 5/3/02
Re: Kazoo-Meister wendy b. 5/3/02

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