Posted by noa on March 4, 2002, at 14:17:30
In reply to Re: riding the turnip truck, posted by trouble on March 4, 2002, at 2:54:03
My concern for you is that while you feel in control of this right now, you might not be at some point down the road. Gracie may be right about this guy grooming you. It is a classic M.O. for the groomer to maintain an illusion of control in the groomee, and then to manipulate the relationship at some point so that the groomer exerts the upper hand overtly. And chances are he's done it before. Grooming for what, exactly, is still an unknown, but the point is that if he is, he is allowing you to feel in control until he's groomed you enough for you to let your guard down.
I am also concerned that your physical safety could be compromised. One of the major problems for women who do this kind of work.
I am concerned that you are setting your self up. I think this situation is a dangerous one for you, physically and emotinally.
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