Posted by tina on December 13, 2001, at 11:46:44
In reply to Re: Defeated/Haunted by my own ineptitude, posted by dreamer on December 13, 2001, at 11:30:09
found out later in life was a over critical negetive mother always bullying and putting me down often aggressive , she used to do it in front of others outside as well as inside.
> Maybe you can connect these feelings back to early events then realise it's not you at fault.
>Dreamer
I had a very critical mother. she was anxiety ridden and made every little thing a big deal. She was always saying "people are staring at you" and was always making me feel not good enough. Criticism is her way of life.
I know this and still, I can't "get over it" I can't let go of the constant feeling that I'm not good enough. That I'm doing or saying the wrong things, at all times.
poster:tina
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