Posted by tina on December 11, 2001, at 12:09:48
In reply to Re: Changing who I am, posted by JohnDoenut on December 11, 2001, at 10:51:19
> > but you know changing who you are has nothing to do with hair color etc, right? and why would you want to change who you ARE? nnononononononono! :)
> > i'd miss you if you changed who you *are*...why
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> Maybe she means she would like to "evolve" who she are or is!!!! Thats natural and a good thing I think. Evolution and growth are important to people.
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> And Kristi dont worry about it at work, theyll get over it and move on with thier lives! :)
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> JohnD
I do it too. When I'm really depressed and hating who I am, I go get a haircut. It's amazing what it does for a person. My appearance is directly related to my depression. For me, it's always been an issue of how others perceive me. I'm always trying to guess what others are thinking about me. Paranoia? Perhaps. But it's from a mother who always made me feel like I was being stared at and made me believe I would be ridiculed if I behaved in a certain way in public....hence my anxiety disorder. Wish I could make all THAT go away with a make-over.Good for you Kristi,
Feel good about yourself! You go girl!!
And I'm with sar, don't change who you are. I like ya!
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