Posted by sar on December 2, 2001, at 13:19:25
In reply to No need to feel that way, posted by Augusta on December 1, 2001, at 22:01:52
Kristi,
i just wanted to let you know that i did the same thing about a year ago...called the guy i kind of dated/lost my virginity to in high school and dated later on (when he tracked me down 3 years later)...i let 3 years pass and then called him...the conversation was awkward, i felt stupid, like he was talking to me out of obligation...the only victory was that at 22 i was almost done with a college degree and living comfortably, and at 23 he was divorced with 2 children by different mothers and working as a clinical aide after getting his GED.
i agree with Christopher--when it's true love, someone inevitably looks like an ass.
on the other hand, when people have tracked me down, regardless of who they were, i have always felt flattered that they remembered me fondly and took the trouble to call.
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