Posted by sar on November 14, 2001, at 13:29:09
In reply to Re: Talking(in front of people), posted by tensor on November 14, 2001, at 11:18:05
tensor,
i think i understand what you're saying--you want to be the social being that you are but don't like the uncomfortable anxiety that has developed in social situations.
i think one of the hallmarks of social anxiety is feeling held back--you *want* to talk to the girl but you're scared, you *want to go to that party but are afraid you'll embarrass yourself.
mentally, i am not a withdrawn or shy person...but in reality, without meds, i used to be extremely reticent and frightened.
it wasn't like i couldn't live without the meds, it's just that the anxiety contributed to an already-existing depression.
i don't have any answers, just my own experience to share, and i'm glad we have this board on which to discuss it. have you done any research yet?
sar
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