Posted by galtin on September 26, 2001, at 11:30:04
In reply to Re: freaking my chickens » geekUK, posted by dreamer on September 20, 2001, at 18:17:39
> > I recon i'LL just tell it straight. Can't get intimate if the chemistry ain't there kinda just feels mechanical and humourous get the feeling he'd stalk me and cause me grief.
> Restraining from sex causes LOVELY euphoria!
> but thats just me.
> ROMANCE the natural high curiosity thrills the cat.
Its a challenge to figure out where the hell its safe to enter this discussion without getting embroiled in anatomical matters.Anyway, A combination of simplicity and truth goes far, but why do we feel compelled (as I often do myself) to give explanations for what is nobody else's business. Just tell him that you don't want a relationship. Don't tell him he has a big this or small that, or refer to the lack of romantic fire. All explanations are methods of inviting and continuing the discussion, which maybe part of you wants to do.
Just say you don't want to. He has no claim on your reasons. End of discussion.
galtin
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