Posted by paula on August 26, 2001, at 15:11:22
Wow, these are all horrible things to hear! What an amazing list. My question may seem stupid, but here goes.
Why is it that these are hurtful things to hear? Is it because the folks that say them just don't get what we're going through? Or is it because they reinforce exactly what we tell ourselves?
Of course, it's painful either way. Just idle curiosity here.... --paula
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