Posted by geekUK on July 19, 2001, at 5:32:05
In reply to Re: rock+hardplace, fryingpan+fire- sit. rep., posted by mila on July 17, 2001, at 22:36:58
I will try to get myhead into something else for a while, but you know its hard to think of a single thing that I want to do, exept get drunk! I thibk that you are probably right in that I need to consider the posivies from each rather than negatives. having my freinds aroundme might seem little use but it probably would help.
thanx mc> Hi MC,
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> I do not have any advice for you, you are in a difficult situation, really. but if i had it would be something like that:
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> do something you care about, if possible, with abandonment ( you can write a long post here about something too). It doesn't have to be about you. Distract yourself for a while. Maybe after such a timeout the decision will be clearer in your mind.
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> You have to see the outcome of your decision more clearly. Right now it is mostly about "being alone or being with wrong people". Imagine something else. HINT: 'being in a company of good people' :)
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> I wish you well. I believe you can get better and you will.
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> best,
> mila
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