Posted by Ugenia Kay on March 23, 2001, at 8:05:28
In reply to The house of cards ..., posted by willow on March 22, 2001, at 20:08:48
Willow: Sometimes when things have been so hard for so long we become uncomfortable when things are good because we are not used to it. It may be because we either did not know how to make things better OR we didn't think we deserved it. I have self-sabotaged myself. The worst thing I did was to get married when I should have gone on to school. But I have forgiven myself. Think about your feelings about "things going to well" Does success frighten you? It sure scares me, But I don't know why. Once I get my meds, I hope I will be doing better. Don't sell yourself short! You are a great person & probably deserve the great job & kids doing well Kathy U.
Have you ever tried making one of those castles out of cards? I've never been very successful.
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> But I'm comparing my real life situation to this right now because things are going so well for myself. The children seem to being doing really well and I've just landed the perfect job for me.
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> Before I became ill I never would have assumed that anything wrong could happen, but now I'm thinking things are going too well!? Perhaps I'm just trying to blow over my own house. :o
poster:Ugenia Kay
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