Posted by Dona on January 12, 2001, at 12:16:20
I do not post on this board much-I read it a lot, but usually only post when I am in crisis, like now. I am depressive and take prozac. I had total knee replacement in Sept and am going back to work as RN next week. My husband lost his job of 23 years in Dec. because of corporate changes.
I have really tried to stay supportive and positive, but he still is not looking for a job ( he is still on payroll of other place and is waiting for them to send him to an outsourcing co). I only have 4 days until I work full time and I am scared because I am still a fair amt of physical pain.
But it makes my angry that my husband is not even yet looking for another job. He is 58 so there is the possibility that noone will hire him even though he has lots of experience.
I have been only nice to him but the last two days I feel like I am going to burst!!! Does anyone have some stress relaxing techniques that really work and am I wrong to be so upset that he has not even started looking for a job. He did support me while I was out of work so I feel very guilty about these feelings.
And how do I stay positive commuting and working 5 days a week when I have not done that in a year??? Thanks
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thread:3880
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