Posted by NikkiT2 on January 8, 2001, at 8:26:56
In reply to I find that really offensive!, posted by Racer on January 7, 2001, at 17:10:49
As a woman, I honestly believe it is each womans choice whether or not she should have an abortion. I am a great believer in NOT bringing children into the world when you are not ina position to give them the kind of life they deserve. both with love, material things, and the stability they need.
I am 26 and married, but don't feel ready for a child. I know some people would argue "why have sex then", but I enjoy it, and theres so few enjoyable things left in life. I take precautions, but have been caught out int he past (I miscarried luckily). Anyway, I don't feel that at the moment I could give a child everything that child needs and deserves. I haven't enough love right now, and I would feel the child was ruining my life. That said, I am incredibly maternal and broody so who knows what would happen!!
men are also very quick to give their opinions, but they are not the ones that ahve to carry a child for 9 months, go through all the hormonal changes,a nd then give birth.Difficult subject, I am VERY pro-choice.
Nikki
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