Posted by desolationrower on April 30, 2009, at 1:33:28
In reply to Re: Jealousy Issue » desolationrower, posted by raisinb on April 29, 2009, at 20:34:43
> Love that band ;)
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> Try not to feel guilt for or take on problems of other people. In the end it's his problem how he deals with losing you and your main focus should be yourself. That isn't selfishness, just mental health. Don't worry about him--he's shown he's not ready to really take on a relationship with his inability to deal with issues.
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> I wish you peace.->this is something i am working on. i try to tell myself that the way to respect other people is to trust them to be able to deal with thier own emotions.
-d/r
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