Posted by fleeting flutterby on July 28, 2008, at 20:31:37
In reply to Re: lackign impulse control.. » fleeting flutterby, posted by karen_kay on July 28, 2008, at 20:02:56
> hey you!
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> i've been told i'm cryptic (hey, i thought that meant old for a minute, but it doesn't), so i'll be more open and honest.
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> challenge= man who i want to sleep with, but mister kk says no, or i think i have no shot for various reasons.<<-----Well, I guess if you're OK with Mr. KK sleeping with other women and he wants to, then I think it would be fine for you to sleep with another man..... it depends on your relationship/marriage.-----
> i think you may have hit the nail on the head with the whole narcisisst thing (god, i know that's selled wrong, but i'm too lazy to scroll down to your post and find the correct spelling).
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> what was i sayig/typing again?
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> oh yeah, so his 'orders' are more like 'no sleeping with mister booger' or whatever. but then i find out exactly what my limits are, and try to push them.
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> wowsa, i'm something else, huh?
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> i know i'm horrible. i know i'
> m screwing with a whoel lot of people (ot literally. please don't think i'm some kind of whore whose sleeping with tons of guys or anythig like that, nto that there's anythig wrong with that. i probably would be if i weren't married with a wonderful little boy. hey, tere's a pic of him on the parent's page tooo :) sorry, shameless plug.<<
----- pictures? I never knew there was a place here with pictures! I don't get around much here. *blushing*------
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> butttt.... that's me, well part of me. i hate to admit it, but that's how i am. i like to push that boundaries. maybe i still do have daddy issues?-----maybe you do..... I think there are many that do.....more common than you'd think. Or maybe it's like an adrenlin rush and all you need is something to replace it-- like sky diving or bungy jumping!-----
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> and trust me, there was nothing offensive in your post at all hun. it takes quite a lot to offend me :) and you were othing but thoughtful and helpful.<<----phew... thank you for understanding! :o) you're so cool!---
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> so, am i a bad person? because i don't see myself ever 'growing' up an dstopping. is that what it is? i just need to grow up? is there somethign seriously wrong with me? do i have some sort of serious personality disorder causign this, or am i jsut a child, lacking self control and manipulating.
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> sometimes ti bugs me. but when i'm flirting and skirtig the envelope, it sure is fun.
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> i'm goig to hell. i already know it. may as well live it up while i can, right?
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> thanks for the thought provoking points. now wht?
> kk<<ummm now what?? hell if I know! :o) I can give out my views but I sorely lack in advice! Views I have a plenty but solutions I haven't any! LOL!! I don't think you're bad.... maybe misguided as to what "fun" is... but you're not bad. <3 --> that's a heart for you-- can you see it?
take care,
flutterby- mandy
poster:fleeting flutterby
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