Posted by karen_kay on June 16, 2008, at 20:51:28
In reply to Re: marriage is hard work, posted by nomadjones on June 16, 2008, at 15:02:11
you know, i'm always looking... :)
oh, i'm jsut kidding (or am i?)
i think my biggest problem is i expect everyone to read my mind. i don't say 'i'm depressed', at best i'll say 'i'm not feeling well' and figure he'll get the hint, even when i'm having suicidal thoughts, you know? i don't know why it's so hard for me to talk (especially when i can go on and on about the stupidest of things for hours nad hours) about important stuff, but i jsut can't. maybe years of invalidation?
there i go again, blaiming childhood issues. i thought i was over all of that. i am 1000 years old, you know?
i kinda just figure he picks up on the hints (not moving from the couch, hygeine issues (wait, i shouldn't mention that one, i'm trying to hit on you), ect.
i forgot where i was goig with this anyway. oh yeah, wanna get married?
poster:karen_kay
thread:834909
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