Posted by karen_kay on March 13, 2008, at 10:42:42
In reply to Dating someone who is not nuts, posted by therock on March 12, 2008, at 13:11:28
i really feel like i shouldn't be answerign any questions on realtionships! honestly! that's really not something i'm good at :)
i used to date someone who was about as sane as they come. and insanity runs in my family, like coffee runs through my bloodstream. it didn't work out for us, but he was a good guy. (honestly, it was my fault. i'm no good at relationships!! i warned you!!! wanna get married?)
for me, i try not to show all my crazy too fast (then again, i don't always take my meds, so i screw that up quite often!!!). i think it tends to scare people off. then again, i've been told i'm very very VERY cold (by myself more than once :). so, while you may not want to tell her in the first month you feel like cutting off your ear, it's ok to tell her you suffer with depression. i think it's become very (snort) acceptable to have psychaitric disorders nowadays, you know? notice all the ads on tv? in fact, you may be surprised by what she shares..
geez, don't listen to me, like i said, i do't know what i'm tlakign about :) honestly, i jsut luck out!
good luck, and if she dumps you, i'll give you my addy, i'm divorce my husband, and we cna have a wonderful affair for a whiel! (hey, i've been called flighty more than once!)
poster:karen_kay
thread:817533
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