Posted by clipper40 on November 13, 2007, at 3:46:13
In reply to Incapable of Love? (part 2), posted by Loveless_Larry on November 5, 2007, at 18:33:03
Looking for flaws in your partner and fixating on them is usually a sign of commitment phobia. On the one hand there's a part of you that wants the commitment (the marriage and the kids) but there may be a bigger part of you that is scared and puts up a wall. You may keep a certain amount of detachment in relationships to protect yourself.
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