Posted by Tamar on August 10, 2007, at 20:49:45
In reply to that wandering eye, posted by karen_kay on July 30, 2007, at 23:11:44
> tell me i'm not the only one with this problem.
You are not the only one with this problem.
I keep reading that people with a history of CSA/rape find sex with new partners easier to tolerate than sex with a long term partner. I don't know if that's your deal, but it's mine and it's my experience too. I can have sex with a new partner any time, but sex with my husband is tricky.
Oh, and at a biological level the wandering eye is totally normal. Just nature's way of keeping us alert to new genetic potential.
Does your partner satisfy you sexually? You don't have to answer that... But an absence of sexual satisfaction at home can lead us to look elsewhere...
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