Posted by Cynthia_Greene on April 2, 2007, at 11:47:38
In reply to Re: How do I know when to trust someone? » Cynthia_Greene, posted by gazo on March 31, 2007, at 13:14:49
> WHat a big step you made! Good for you! You rearranged the doubts to analyze your own doubts about yourself. THAT is where growth comes from. Give yourself credit for that.:o)
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> as far as speed goes.. it's sometimes tough to slow things down.. sometimes there is just good chemistry. Relationships start with chemistry, but they can't be built on it. Slow is better IMO, but it isn't some kind of rule.I wouldn't normally move so fast, but we've known each other for a while before getting together and already seemed pretty close because we both have seen each other at our worst. We originally met at a bad time in a very stressful situation, so it seemed like there was nowhere to go from there but up.
I really liked that on the first date (which happened about 5 months after we met) we didn't have to deal with any of the little awkward small talk. It was nice that he was completely honest with me and had nothing to hide.
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